We What this quote conveys ? Is Life very
We all have read the quote “Life is not easy, and it is not meant to be”. What this quote conveys ? Is Life very difficult or tough ? No, it conveys that to live a life you needs a positive mindset, a positive outlook towards whatever situation you get into. Positive thinking improves your health, enhance your relationships, increase your chances to succeed, and add meaningful years to your life. In today’s stressful world, most people are surrounded by negativity each day. However, prime reason behind this negativity is ourselves, the thoughts which get influenced by the company we keep and our personal perspective on life’s realities. Negative thoughts narrow our focus and scope of work by blocking the thinking process of our mind. Thus, the first and foremost important thing is to curb the negative thoughts and then gradually build up a positive thinking process. In simpler words just train our mind to think positive. Positive thinking is developed by practice and it requires certain mental attitude. When we think with a positive mindset, we instantly find answers to the most complex problems and challenges which we encounter. A positive mindset generates positive thoughts. We need to be emotionally intelligent to evolve our thinking process. By emotional intelligence I mean, skill to train our mind to think positive in every situation. And how this training will be done ? It will be achieved by daily practice of noticing all positive things happening around. We can start it by using positive words while thinking and talking. As we make it a daily habit and apply it regularly, we gradually achieve a positive thinking mindset which allows us to steer away from negative thoughts and helps us to resolve tough situations quickly and easily. With a positive thinking attitude one can enjoy a better and more rewarding life. When we initiate any plan or action, it is necessary to foresee clearly in our mind its successful execution and outcome. Surround yourself with people having positive energy. This will help in generating an equivalent positive energy in you which will attract further positive people towards you and it will be an ongoing process. Each person benefits from other one and vice versa. A person who follows – “Think positive and everything will work out”, can handle any circumstances which comes up either easy or tough. A big hindrance in positive thinking is thinking too much about past. If we have suffered in past or made any mistake then often we try to live that past in our present too. This is the habit we have to avoid or if we have then we should work to remove it. It is important to remember that we all must live in PRESENT. Thinking about past suffering adversely affect our present by generating negative thoughts. We start to think that since we failed in past we will repeat in present too and we avoid moving forward. Often there is strong unwillingness inside us when replacing negative thoughts with positive ones. We have to ensure that we do not quit and instead keep trying to generate good and happy thoughts in the mind. It may take some time for the changes to take place, but fruitful results are assured. Once such a positive environment is build around you, your thoughts will evolve automatically. With evolving thoughts you will start noticing even tiny positive things happening around you. These smaller things bring a major transformation in your life by moving you away from negative thoughts and guiding you to move continuously in forward direction. On a concluding note, I would like to restate that positive thinking is a basic requirements for positive outcome in any field of our life. We have to learn the power of positive thinking and embrace positive attitude to gain benefits in our life.